Reader’s Mail: How I Slept With A Popular Church’s Pastor For One Year Without Really Knowing

Hello Ladun,

Find below my story. Please don’t put my name on it.

I used to be a member of an old popular church, which has a
branch in Shomolu. I attended the church for several years and everything was
fine until I started going for the Wednesday programme organized by the pastor.
I also started going to him for counselling. That was how my problem started.

Before I knew what was going on, I found myself sleeping
with him. I kept telling myself that I will stop , but I could not , because I
don’t always remember how we start.  My eyes
only open when we have finished having sex. This went on for over a year.

But sometime last year I was save from him at a church that
a friend of mine invited me too. The pastor of the church told me that I have been
sleeping with a devil claiming to be pastor and he has been stealing my glory
to grow his business.

He told me to fast and make sure I do not see him for 3
days. To my surprise, my said pastor kept calling me, he even used another number
to call me but I did not pick. On the third day I saw him for who he really is
(devil) and I was free from him.

I told a brother everything that happened to me, because his
wife was also close to him. He later told me to forget about it and move one
with my life. I later found out that the brother told some pastors in our
church and nothing was done about it.

I would have mentioned the church and the pastor’s name but
I have my family and kids to protect. I just want people to be careful of
getting closer to pastors.