A 70-year old pastor, Caleb Oluwafisibe, on Tuesday pleaded
with an Ojo Customary Court in Lagos to dissolve his 41-year old marriage to
his wife, Titilayo, because he was s3x starved.
with an Ojo Customary Court in Lagos to dissolve his 41-year old marriage to
his wife, Titilayo, because he was s3x starved.
The pastor, who ironically appeared in court wearing a polo
T-shirt which had the inscription ‘peace’ at the back, told the court that he
was already practicing a celibate life, even as a married man.
T-shirt which had the inscription ‘peace’ at the back, told the court that he
was already practicing a celibate life, even as a married man.
“Since I married my wife in June 1975, it’s been marriage
and separation in two phases because any situation was determined by what I
could offer. We were living well until 1998 when things became tough
with me. We separated from 1998 to 2006, when my church transferred me out to
the East,’’ he said. Continue…
and separation in two phases because any situation was determined by what I
could offer. We were living well until 1998 when things became tough
with me. We separated from 1998 to 2006, when my church transferred me out to
the East,’’ he said. Continue…
According to him, my wife had a negative influence on my
children as we had divergent views on their welfare and training. We always
clashed because of them.
children as we had divergent views on their welfare and training. We always
clashed because of them.
He said that his wife refused him s3x from 2006 till date
and that forced him to practice a life of celibacy, in order to keep his vows
as a man of God.
and that forced him to practice a life of celibacy, in order to keep his vows
as a man of God.
“I even had a special prayer for my wife for three years to
see if God would intervene in the difficult situation and change her
personality,’’ he said.
see if God would intervene in the difficult situation and change her
personality,’’ he said.
Mr. Oluwafisibe,
therefore, pleaded with the court to separate their union, so he could move on
with his life.
therefore, pleaded with the court to separate their union, so he could move on
with his life.
The wife, Titilayo, however, debunked the husband’s
allegation, saying he was treating her without any tender consideration as a
wife.
allegation, saying he was treating her without any tender consideration as a
wife.
“He calls himself a pastor yet he does not have regard for
his family. He has really caused so much division among our children,’’ she
said.
his family. He has really caused so much division among our children,’’ she
said.
The Court president, Veronica Willoughby, in her remark,
urged the pastor to reconsider his prayer of dissolution, as a man of God.
urged the pastor to reconsider his prayer of dissolution, as a man of God.
“As a pastor, you should seek peace and not separation. I
will give you a second chance to go back and reconsider your intention. You
have both failed in the training of your children by using them as a point of
disagreement. Your children are your collective responsibilities,’’ she said.
will give you a second chance to go back and reconsider your intention. You
have both failed in the training of your children by using them as a point of
disagreement. Your children are your collective responsibilities,’’ she said.
Ms. Willoughby then adjourned the case till February 16, to
give the couple some time to reconsider their intentions.
give the couple some time to reconsider their intentions.
(NAN)
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