Apply Wisdom In Your Marriage! Blog Reader Writes

I am in my 30’s. I have been married and I am now divorced
(he was abusive and yes I did submit to some extent) But let me tell you the
honest to God’s truth! WOMEN!!!!!! You do NEED to APPLY WISDOM! And
unfortunately so YES!!! It is a WISE WOMAN THAT DOES KEEP her HOME! I am not
saying be a fool let a man ride over you or do not have your say but apply
what? WISDOM!!!

Unfortunately to all my young independent ladies out there I
have been you, and I am still you (just a little older a few more relationships
and experience but still a fiercely independent Wise Woman) and I can advise
that you can be you in your relationship or Marriage but my dear, Dears
Marriage is not a joke or a game.

Marry your Brother! And when I mean Brother I mean if you
are a true Christian Marry your Brother in Christ!

By doing so you both have a
clear understanding of what it takes to be married and a true man of God is
going to Love, RESPECT, Protect, Provide, cherish, nourish and love his wife!
So submitting to this kind of man who would also be a man you love, admire and
respect would not be hard because you have that mutual admiration, love and
respect for each other and yes women we need to have a certain level of
tolerance.

Marry your friend you hear??? Are you listening?? Marry your
friend! Marry someone you can be yourself with, talk to and accepts you for you
and understands the type of Woman you are. A man who encourages you understands
your dreams, your ambitions and aspirations.

Understand Men do not change even with the love of a good
woman they may keep certain behaviours on the low out of respect but trust me
men rarely change!! Do not go in to Marriage expecting to change a man are you
Mother Theresa?? Trust me they will NOT CHANGE! So if this man has certain
behaviours you know you cannot tolerate DO NOT MARRY THE MAN! Because once you
are his wife that is it! It would be a case of you knew this but you still
married him!!!

You do not have to prove your point every time you just do
not have to do this!! Pick your battle that is where we as women apply wisdom!
Pick your battles not everything is a fight or a chance to prove your point
okay. Sometimes we do have to turn a blind eye or cast our eyes away from
certain issues because let me tell you the English man’s say’s his home is his
castle! If the Castle is hot my dears he go run leave am for you and your
children’s ooh! Make your home a place of peace where you both can live in
peace and be happy! 

Choose your battles Women apply Wisdom! It is a wise woman
that keeps her home you hear??

Women are naturally the nurturer (we can’t escape this we
just need to accept it) men feed in to the feminine side of us woman please do
try to keep it lady like as much as you can! I know we can get Gangster
sometimes (and some men love it!) but not always you hear keep it lady like.

We need to treat our man like the king of the Castle we just
have too. There is nothing wrong in doing this or pandering to your husband’s
ego there is nothing wrong in doing that at all, after all is he not yours as
you are his? It does not make you a mumu wife that does it all for her husband
it just makes you a wise wife who loves her husband and her happy home. He also
should be treating you like a Queen if not there is an issue!

There is nothing wrong in depending on your husband make him
feel you need him, him too cannot live without you and needs to depend on you
too. After all you are are his mate of life the women he has chosen to be with
until death do u part!