Disc jockey Ms DSF has urged women to be more intentional about preserving their friendships, saying many are quick to end relationships with other women over minor disagreements while repeatedly forgiving men who treat them poorly.
In a statement shared on her page, Ms DSF said women often fail to extend grace to their female friends, choosing instead to cut them off after a single misunderstanding.
She said:
“Girls be so strict with each other sometimes and it pisses me OFF. You don’t give your friends grace, you don’t let them make mistakes. One fight/misunderstanding and you want to cut people off like OT Genesis.
“Instead of getting real, fighting through it and having hard conversations, it’s, ‘I need to protect my peace, she’s a hater, she’s a weirdo,’ blah blah blah.”
She also criticised what she described as a double standard, arguing that some women are more forgiving of romantic partners than they are of their friends.
“But you’ve given that same man that don’t do right by you 10000 + 1 chances. That behaviour is lame AF. Do better”, she noted.
Ms DSF further lamented what she sees as the growing culture of individualism, stressing the importance of community and meaningful human connections.
“Our culture promotes individualism so much to the extreme sometimes. Humans need humans. Humans need love and community and you cannot build a community if every man wants to be an island”, she stated.
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