Having Three Wives Could Be Termed As Destiny… OJB Speaks

Music producer OJB has said he never
planned to have three wives and has a matter of fact he told himself while
growing up that he won’t get married, but just have kids in life. And now here
is where I find myself, I just think its destiny, he told a Punch reporter.

Was it by choice or design that
you have three wives?

It is everything. But
predominantly, I think it is by design. Some people believe in destiny while
some others don’t. I think it was destined to happen. I believe in destiny. I
don’t think I would have survived it if it weren’t destined to be. People get
shocked that I have three wives because I don’t live like somebody who has
three wives. Come to think of it, there is no particular way to live life. Am I
supposed to wear three shirts because I have three wives? I don’t even advise
people to have three wives and when I talk about it, they are shocked.

Oh yes I did. When I was growing
up, I even said I was not going to get married. I said I would just have
children. But see, it is not the same story now. I just feel it is destiny.

Don’t you regret it?

There is no regret. Initially, you
would tell yourself that if you had one wife, this would have happened or that
would have happened if you didn’t. But then again, you have to check and
understand that life is in stages. I am appreciating life the way it is. Out of
the marriages, I have eight beautiful children. When I look at them, I am
happy. They are my investment.