Help! I May Lose My Job If I Don’t Date My Married Boss- Female Reader

Hi Ladun,

     

I am a female in my late 20’s and
I recently got a job ( 4 months ago) with a first generation bank in Lagos. My
job was going smoothly until a new boss was posted to head my unit.

When he came, I noticed he took
special interest in me. Most times insisting I stay with him to finish up work
after normal working hours. I thought his interest was purely platonic until
one day when he tried to touch me inappropriately while we were working
overtime. When I protested he starting telling me sweet nonsense about Why he
likes me and why he wants us to be “friends”.

   

After a week he called me into
his office and asked for a reply. When I told him I can’t date a married man,
he started yelling at me threatening me that if he doesn’t have me he would
make sure I am sacked. He has given me till next week Friday to give him a
positive response or I should start preparing to leave my job.

  

I don’t want to lose my job and I
also don’t want to date this man. Please, how do I go about this? I sincerely
have bills to pay.