I Will Say This Once & For All… I Never Cheated On 9ice- Toni Payne

Here is what Toni Payne wrote on her blog yesterday, after
her tweets on relationships and marriage went viral on blogs. She said she will say it once and for all that
she NEVER cheated on 9ice while their one year and a half-year marriage lasted.

To those who still believe I cheated on my ex. I am sorry to
disappoint you, I never cheated on my ex hubby. Its not who I am, it will never
be who I am. Tell yourself 1 million times, Toni Payne cheated, it will never
make it true. Nobody caught me in any lie, or in any bad situation, nobody
slept with anyone he was close to. Yall need to put a full stop to that
bullshit. Its old!. Sometimes, men want their freedom, and the fact is you cant
force them to stay. Same goes for women. Everyone wont have a perfect
relationship, not everyone will stay married forever, we can only aspire to.
Even those that have been married 10 years and are busy judging others, do you
know your tomorrow? naaaa you sure don’t so curb it abeg. We can only pray,
work, and hope for a good union. 

Anyways To address this my ex said this or that issue. Let
me just say He has NEVER for once opened his mouth to accuse me of cheating. He
has NEVER for once opened his mouth to accuse me of sleeping with anyone he
knows. If awon alaiye baje wanna use our situation then to sell their crap, how
is that my fault? The same media controlling the remote to say I think cheating
is ok, are the same who controlled the remote back then to say his song was
about me. Nobody ever called him to verify or ask before publishing. Ill admit
that we both did not handle the situation well back then, It was the first time
we would experience such. The tension was plenty and emotions were everywhere.
We should have sorted it privately. which we did try to do but one rubbish
headline and emotions go buckwild again. I don’t wanna sounding like I am
defending him, cos he is responsible for himself, but in all fairness to him,
and because I have a conscience that serves me well, not for once did he tweet,
fb, email, interview anything of the sort. Our issues had absolutely nothing to
do with what the media were speculating. People took a song he did and turned
it upside down. My crew MIXED AND MASTERED the song. If it was about me, why
would I allow him release it. God gave all of us sense naa.. Some just chose
not to use theirs and chose to believe anything they read even when the facts
are there to sort through.

The only thing I have blamed him for, was not coming out on
time to refute the claims and allowing it to escalate to that level, he has
since apologized SEVERALLY, we have discussed it privately as we should have
from the jump. I have accepted and moved on. I have also apologized for losing
my cool on twitter, he has since accepted and moved on. Really, what more is
there. I am not sure what people want from me. Should I hate him forever?
Should I tie him to a post and flog him mercilessly? Should I be a wicked
person and deprive him of his son? If I remain bitter and upset, please what
value will it add to my life? Wo, my life is much more simpler than all this.
Those who know me well, know this. Those that dont understand me are the ones who
will be forever outside looking in, speculating crap. I am truly tired of this
topic but since it seems to keep popping up, i felt it is best to finally
address it properly. If anyone decides to hang on to the lie after this, that
is their own cup of tea. I have a talk show to record, poetry to write and a
child to raise. I don talk my own. FIN!.