Dancer Korra Obidi, who was married to American chiropractor Justin Dean, has shared some of the lessons she learned from their marriage and subsequent divorce.
Obidi got married to Dean at 26 and their marriage ended in divorce when she was 31. She is now advising women to pay closer attention to certain things before deciding to get married.
According to her, women should:
– Pay attention to how their partner’s love makes them feel.
– Watch how they are treated when they are vulnerable.
– Pay attention to how their partner responds to their success.
– Take note of who they become around their partner.
– Think about the power dynamic in the relationship.
– Make sure they have the freedom to express themselves.
– Stay financially grounded.
– Never ignore warning signs.
– Know themselves before getting married.
– Avoid losing themselves in marriage.
Obidi’s advice centres on knowing yourself, maintaining your independence and paying attention to how a relationship affects you before taking the step into marriage.
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