Ladies Need To Be Careful About Walking Up To A Man First- Jennifer Eliogu Advises

Nollywood actress and singer Jennifer Eliogu has said it’s
best for women to allow men ask them out instead of walking up to them because
Nigerian men aren’t ready for that. She also spoke about her kind of man but
never made mention of when she will tie the knot. Enjoy!

What attracts you to
men?

I think every woman likes a well-dressed and good looking
young man to be identified with. But aside the physique appearance, I will say
I like a very intelligent man, and people often say they like God-fearing man,
yes, but as far as I’m concerned, everybody is God-fearing, it all depends on
your relationship with God. But I will say, I like men that have respect for
humanity because love for humanity is love for God. You can’t give God shelter,
you can’t clothe God, you can’t feed God neither can you protect God, it is
human that need all these. Continue…

Automatically, if you’re passionate in providing
these for fellow human when you’re in position of doing it, then, you will be
regarded as a God- fearing person. So, fearing of God is of the mind. I also
like hard-working men. I have men in my surrounding who are inspiring and
encouraging me. Not in a negative way, hope you understand. They are the people
that believe in my zeal, I have very close male friends who are so objective to
my opinion. Such that whenever I make my opinion known to them about a project
or other issues, they will say, Jay? No, you can’t do this like this and so on.
Those are the kinds of men that are inspiring me.

Would you say it is
fair for a woman to ask a man out first?

Honestly; given the kind of society we belong to, the
society wants you to be a complete woman. I will personally prefer my man to
woo me because it is the right of men to do so in our society. Of course, there
might be nothing bad in woman doing that but in this part of the world, you
don’t know the kind of guy you’re doing it to. If he’s not mature enough, he
might think that is how you’ve been doing to other men out there and take you
for something else. Unlike in the western world; if you walk up to a man and
say I like you, that means you have crush on him and mind you, that might not
lead to relationship but being a very good friend. In this part of the world,
we are hypocritical in nature. Although, there are some men that are mature
enough to understand that for a lady to walk up to you and appreciate you
doesn’t make her a harlot; so my advice is that, for a lady who can do such
should try to examine the kind of man she wants to express such to.