Should I Forgive My Fiancé For Refusing To Tell A Lady Off Because Of Me?

Hi Ladun,

                 

I’m in serious pain and so confused right now. I really need
advice on this issue I’m having in my relationship. I’ve been dating my fiancé
since 2yrs now and he proposed to me in May. There’s been ups and ‎down but we
manage each other and we are happy.

 But there’s this girl
lately that I’m not finding her friendship with my fiancé comfortable anymore.
He said she is his friend’s ex but their closeness lately has been giving me
concern. She flirts with him not minding my presence.

I called my fiancé and told him I’m not comfortable with the
attitude of the girl and he promised it will stop. I told him I might approach
her myself and let her know I am not comfortable with her flirting with my man.

On Sunday, after church she saw me and my fiancé but they
couldn’t exchange greetings because I was there. Later that afternoon, my
fiancé was showing me stuffs on his phone and this girl’s message popped up on
his phone and to my surprise, she was sending him pictures of herself.

I was even more surprised when I discovered my fiancé has
changed her name on his phone to Pharmacist. I asked him why he did that and he
said it was because I threatened I would call her.

I left his house in anger when he refused to allow me call
her on the phone to ask her why she sent her picture to another woman’s fiancé
when she knows he has one. He Might not be having anything with her but I
expect him to show me some respect and let the girl know his babe deserves some
respect, which I have not gotten. Please I need advice on what next to do
because he has been begging.