Writer and social media personality Slumflower recently sparked online chatter after revealing her dating preferences on the Gracefully Said podcast.
She explained why significantly older men, often divorced, appeal to her far more than younger suitors.
“Yo! I date much, much older men… People have been annoyed that I said that I’ll date a man that’s my dad’s age. My dad’s 56 I don’t see anything wrong with that. I don’t think anything is wrong with that,” she said, unapologetically.
For Slumflower, emotional compatibility and maturity outweigh age numbers. “I can’t mentally resonate and be at peace with a man who’s, like, 31. 31 is not mature enough for me,” she admitted. She also noted that many younger men are still focused on building careers and financial stability.
She further stated;
“Younger men are still trying to build themselves… I prefer men who have been through at least one divorce who’ve built, finished, and grown from their experiences.”
Slumflower appreciates partners who have faced life’s challenges. “Love a divorcee… because they’ve gone through the stress… they’ve felt the loss.” Her ideal man has learned from experience: “I like men who somebody else has already kind of, like, whipped them into shape,” she explained, noting she can be a difficult partner herself.
Financial readiness is also a factor: “If you’re going to be around a woman as flashy, hot and young as me, you must be spending and men who are much older, they’ve kind of made peace with that.”
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