The Truth Between Lanre Nzeribe & Monalisa Chinda By Grace Amanda

My name is Grace Amanda I am a friend to both Lanre Nzeribe
and Monalisa Chinda I have decided to write my name in this story so that both
parties know exactly where this is coming from.

I know both parties well, I have related with them well
enough to know what they are capable of and I know almost everything that went
down in that relationship and I can assure you this story is true. I know
commentators would wonder why I bother writing this or how it’s my business
what happened between those two but I think I owe it to humanity to speak
because most of what you people know is either wrong or not completely true.
Most of you have concluded that Lanre Nzeribe is the demon and villain while
Monalisa Chinda is the victim in that relationship but I tell you the opposite
is the case. I guess the saying is true, “appearance is deceptive”

Like I stated earlier I know both parties’ good and bad side
so I won’t make any party look good or spread lies. Yes we all know Lanre
Nzeribe to be a ladies man, a man every woman wants to be around but that
doesn’t make him a criminal or different from the regular man out there. It’s a
normal phenomenon to see men date a lot, but that does not mean I support this
please. In fact as his friend it’s a daily counsel on my part to make him stop.
However, when Lanre met Lisa he actually fell in love with the woman, she
wasn’t a joke or conquest forhim. He was dedicated to her infact the dedication
was so great he allowed her to move in with him where he lives. His commitment
to her was admirable infact she became the envy of all her friends and
colleagues because they could not understand what made her different and
special that she should be treated like a queen, let’s not forget that there’s
been other women before her, but he cut down on all that excesses. I guess
that’s what happens when a man genuinely falls in love. This act of love was
shown by the gifts he showered her with, the numerous travels abroad for
holidays, especially visits to his Washington home; the frequent outings they
had and most of all, thebusiness venture that brought about monalisa magazine.

When this love affair started so many people warned Lanre
about Lisa me inclusive, they told him to just walk away, all her numerous
escapades that he read online were enough for him to walk away but he didn’t, I
mean how would he? Dude was in love. He defended her, fought her battles like a
knight in shining armour and trust me the battles he had to fight were
numerous. She never knew lack, there was nothing she asked of him she didn’t
get instantly even Lisa have been seen to testify to this. That misconception
of Lanre going after Lisa for her money is not only wrong but laughable,
because in honesty she didn’t have that much. Even the company they both ran
together,the monies that came in were spent by her not him. Whenever he
travelled abroad he shopped for her; dresses, shoes, bags name it. A dream life
most women will die to have, monalisa had it on a platter of gold. Her only
duty was to look beautiful and be a good girlfriend but just like other things
in her life that was also a difficult task for her to carry out. I begin to
wonder if the stories she told about her ex husband was even true.

Her insatiable desire for the good life on a fast lane will
never make Lisa sit down and settle down. Her greed for fancy things, small
boys, married men and money will never make Lisa stay faithful. She would do
anything to stay relevant and I mean ANYTHING. This is not the first time Lanre
and Lisa have parted ways and the problem has always been about the Nollywood
lifestyle she was living. Her frequent travels to Abuja or port Harcourt to
either  visit one government official or
the other or to  sleep with someone
else’s husband for money,  was a
major  issue in that relationship. Money
that Lanre could give her without difficulty. There was even an incident in
Abuja which happened of recent where Lisa was embarrassed at the airport by the
wife of the man whom she had been sneaking into Abuja to see regularly, imagine
the shame even for us her friends.

The struggle to stay classy went further when Lisa lied to
Lanre sometime in February about a business she had to attend to in London.
Lanre had his doubt and decided to hire a private investigator who came back
with evidence of her escapade while in London. Lisa was in a hotel in London
sleeping with a white man, and this was supposed to be a business trip o. This
broke Lanre into pieces he couldn’t trust her any longer. When she returned to
Nigeria from her supposed “business” Lanre confronted her and as usual she lied
about everything. “Please note that telling lies is a calling for Lisa, it
comes to her naturally. *Okay back to the story* when she wouldn’t confess
Lanre showed her the evidence of her escapade and she broke down and begged for
forgiveness, friends interceded on her behalf and again he forgave her.

Lanre felt if she needed money that badly he could get her
to stay away from that lifestyle by opening a business for her. First he opened
a beauty product business for her she couldn’t even make that work, then he
decided to do the magazine business for her to keep her busy and at the same
time make money the right way. Of course she was shocked he was willingly to
invest that much money on her and she admitted that she knew nothing about
publishing  but he told her she would
learn on the job and even made arrangements for her to study in America; a
course in publishing and business. But like they say ‘a leopard will never
change its spot’. Lisa didn’t like hard work, she preferred easy money, one
where she opens her leg and get money speedily. Seeing that the magazine
venture was a difficult task for her, she was bent on finding a way out both
from the business and the relationship as she had once told a staff that Lanre
was blocking her ways from getting private jets from governors that wanted to
have an affair with her. In order to make this happen she would pick on every
little thing to make her and Lanre quarrel so that she can hold onto it and
move on. She accused virtually the whole monalisa magazine female staffs of
wanting to sleep with Lanre. The woman’s insecurities are overwhelming.

Finally, she moved out of his house without him knowing. He came
back from America and found out that she had packed all of her stuffs out of
his house. And that was the beginning of the end.

Now why am I upset? I am upset because she’s giving people a
different version of what really happened but we the close people around them
know exactly the truth. To think Lisa Chinda is a divorcee and a mother of one,
one would think she would have some iota of respect for herself and her kid and
keep her legs closed but instead since after the break up she’s been seen clubbing
at different clubs; hanging out at the beach with people she can give birth to
and acting like a young woman that she is not. The same colleagues she has
severally run down in front of myself and Lanre, all of a sudden they’re now
her best friends?; stories of her sleeping with a big shot Lagos official
government, a married man for that matter,here in Lagos is spreading round as
well.Monalisa Chinda what happened to you? How did you become like this?Or have
you always been this way but your sins are now catching up with you? Your
beauty will not last long, at 41 you are still acting like a child, what a
shame. To think I believed in you and thought all that church maps were for
real, now I know better

Dear LisaChinda, quit with the lies and fake stories you are
spreading around, I have more to say and so do others, but there’s no need
washing our dirty linen online. Lanre might have his excesses but