Actress turned evangelist, Tonto Dikeh has advised Christian men to put more effort into courtship instead of relying solely on spiritual declarations when pursuing a woman for marriage
Tonto questioned why some church brothers believe church sisters do not deserve thoughtful gifts or intentional acts of love during the dating stage.
She argued that saying “God told me you are my wife” should not replace genuine effort, care and commitment in building a relationship.
“This is a very funny topic, but it is one that we actually need to discuss. So, if you are a brother in the Lord, come forward; this is for you.”, she said.
“Why do church brothers think church sisters don’t require gifts? What about this low-effort thing you put into wooing or pursuing a woman? Church brothers would say, ‘God sent me to you,’ and blah, blah.
“God can send you, but using spiritual language to mask emotional laziness is a distortion of God’s character. Saying, ‘God told me you are my wife,’ is not an excuse to bypass intentionality and practical effort,” she added.
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