Relationship coach and media personality Blessing CEO, has spoken out following a viral video that sparked rumors of a physical fight involving her and her partner
In a video posted on Instagram, Blessing addressed the speculation, explaining that the footage actually captured a confrontation between her and controversial blogger Tosin Silverdam — not a fight. She said she confronted him at a public event over what she described as years of lies and defamatory content about her.
“There’s a video going around of me and my man, and people are saying we went to fight,” she said. “How can I fight? Do I look like someone that can fight, as pretty as I am?”
Blessing accused Tosin of spreading falsehoods for clout and alleged he had even collected money to defame her online. She made it clear she has no issue with criticism but takes offense at deliberate falsehoods.
“My brand is controversy, so I expect people to talk. But I have a problem with lies. Don’t collect money to bully me and call it blogging. That’s not blogging,” she said.
Throughout the video, Blessing repeatedly referred to Tosin as a woman, saying things like “woman to woman” and “fellow girl,” but made no attempt to clarify this was not literal. This language, however, was clearly meant to mock Tosin’s effeminate demeanor, not to misgender him.
“I wanted to flog him like a little girl, woman to woman,” she said. “I’ve warned him before. This time, I gave him my final warning. If you blog about me, fine — I put food on your table. But don’t lie about me.”
Blessing added that the confrontation happened at a movie premiere and that she held back out of respect for actress Toyin Abraham, who was hosting the event.
“If not for Aunty Toyin, I would have dealt with him properly. But I didn’t want to cause drama there,” she said.
She ended the video with a direct threat: “If you post my video again or tell another lie, I’ll block you, report you, and take legal action. Tosin Silverdam, this is your final warning.”
The feud between Blessing CEO and Tosin Silverdam has been ongoing. Tosin has previously criticized her for flaunting her relationship with car dealer IVD — something she has mocked others for doing.
Blessing has since accused him of bullying, defamation, and being paid to lie, and has publicly supported others, like Bobrisky, who have taken legal steps against him..
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