Pastor Funke Adejumo of Agape Christian Ministries has encouraged married men not to put themselves under unbearable pressure in an attempt to satisfy every expectation in marriage.
The preacher acknowledged that men have a responsibility to provide for their families but said they should not sacrifice their health or lives trying to please their wives completely.
She said:
“To all married men, don’t ever k!!l yourself trying to please a woman. I’m a woman speaking to you, and there’s nobody that can please a woman to the fullest. I know you’re responsible, and I’m not saying you should not be responsible, but please, don’t k!!l yourself.
God gave us natural nails, we’ll cut them and put on artificial nails. God gave us eyebrows, we’ll shave them off and draw another one. God gave us natural hair, we remove it and wear wigs. If the Almighty God cannot please us, who are you that wants to please us? That’s the truth. Don’t k!!l yourself.
That is why I tell women, don’t let the money you have be only s&xu@lly transmitted money. You too should have your own money, so whatever your husband gives you will just be an addition.
Who says you too cannot surprise your husband with a Prado? When my husband turned 60, I gave him 60 gifts. Your life should not be dependent on, ‘Until daddy comes.’ We have left that level. If you’re still there, you’re the only one remaining…”
She also used the opportunity to encourage women to earn their own income instead of relying entirely on their husbands financially.
According to her, having personal financial stability allows a woman to contribute to the family and even celebrate her husband with meaningful gifts, rather than waiting for everything to come from him.
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