Photos: How May D Turned Me Into A Punching Bag For Years- Baby Mama Explains

Oh dear! May D’s baby mama, Debola has sent a mail to blogger Linda Ikeji explaining how the man she loved with everything for 8 years has turned her into a punching bag. She says he beats her at the slightest provocation and during his last assault she passed out and almost lost her life. Read her mail below.

My name is Debola I’m sure you know who I am, you put me on
ur blog about 3yrs ago, for tattooing a Nigerian artist name on my body, I’m
MayD’s baby Mama… I haven’t come here to rant or make noise, but to say some
important things that I feel people should know. I will try to make my story as
short as possible.

I was with MayD for 8years, which implies we were together
from the get-go, before his career began and when nobody knew him obviously.
For many years I stayed with him, obviously as his girlfriend, I supported him,
financially, physically and emotionally. Back then when I was in Babcock we
passed through loads of hurdles together being that he was struggling and
incapable of providing for himself and I was obliged to supporting him
financially. Even when it was extreme, like giving him a semester’s tuition to
pay for studio sessions while I stupidly stayed at home, the things we do for
love right?I practically paused my life for him, for us at a point. The sad
part about this whole thing is that I never got tired I did everything that was
within my reach. He stopped to cater for his kid a while ago, which I took
responsibilities for and started to do diligently..

Now, like most relationships we had major problems which
included the frequent cheating  and
escapades with girls which I obviously endured as I was consumed by the “main
chick” title. Not that I was even getting any good thing in return,  he never for one day acknowledge me, or made
me feel like we were in a relationship together. I had no simple freedom to do
whatsoever on my own, be it business, friendship etc. 

The thing I couldn’t cope with was the fact that he beat me
up at every slightest opportunity he had, he beats me up like a man, he beat me
up so badly infront of our little boy all the time. He assaulted me regularly,
I suffered domestic violence in silence, and this last time he beat me up so
badly and I passed out.. I saw my life flash right infront of me. I witnessed
been close to death, I prayed to survive each time he pounced on me, damaging
several properties nd breaking diff stuff on my head.

This had to be my last experience, as I thought to myself,
who will take care of my child for me if I die in his hands? Who will he call
mother? Who will stand by him? So I left the relationship hurriedly without
thinking of how much time, energy, resources that must have been wasted….

  

PS( I av my tattoo removed already for those of you that
want to comment bullshit)……

PLS SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE….

DEBOLA