Stella Damasus has confirmed she is dating ace director,
Daniel Ademinokan for the first time ever. Though a lot has been written and said about them, the lovers never denied nor
accepted they were dating, but in a one on one interview with Emma Emerson of
Golden Icons, Stella admitted they were dating and said a lot of people have
not been bold enough to ask her, but she is glad Emma did. She also said their relationship is for real and here to stay, and she never snatched Daniel from Doris.
She also spoke about
her late husband Jaiye, failed marriage and her daughters. It’s a video, but
part of the interview has been typed out here, you will also find the videos in two parts after the cut. Enjoy!
Why she got married at 21;
“I always wanted to start early. I always wanted to have
children early. I wanted to have a marriage early, I wanted to grow with a
family. I wanted to learn the inside of it, I didn’t want to wait and grow, and
mature, and become big and famous then start to wonder ‘oh, will anyone marry
me now’. So at that point looking at my life, I said, if I do this for another
five (5), six (6), seven (7) years, and I don’t start a family, it will become
more difficult for me later on. And so, I decided if I find somebody who I
love, who will love me back, we will go together. We will fight all the fight,
make up, we will do whatever, but we will grow old together. And that’s what
happened.
children early. I wanted to have a marriage early, I wanted to grow with a
family. I wanted to learn the inside of it, I didn’t want to wait and grow, and
mature, and become big and famous then start to wonder ‘oh, will anyone marry
me now’. So at that point looking at my life, I said, if I do this for another
five (5), six (6), seven (7) years, and I don’t start a family, it will become
more difficult for me later on. And so, I decided if I find somebody who I
love, who will love me back, we will go together. We will fight all the fight,
make up, we will do whatever, but we will grow old together. And that’s what
happened.
How she relates with her daughters;
When you see the three of us, and you see my daughters, you
will think we are sisters. And we talk as friends. So it was an important thing
for me. To have a family, and have that…I needed something to check me. We have
a tendency to be crazy and do whatever we like because we could get away with
anything, we could travel all over the world, we could get people to like us
like this (snaps finger), we had money to throw around. If I don’t have that
family unit to check me, I don’t know what I would have become and I won’t lie
about that.”
will think we are sisters. And we talk as friends. So it was an important thing
for me. To have a family, and have that…I needed something to check me. We have
a tendency to be crazy and do whatever we like because we could get away with
anything, we could travel all over the world, we could get people to like us
like this (snaps finger), we had money to throw around. If I don’t have that
family unit to check me, I don’t know what I would have become and I won’t lie
about that.”
Yet to recover from Jaiye’s death;
Recover? Do you really recover? They say time heals. I say,
I have a different definition, I say time numbs. It is not something that
heals, and then that’s it, it’s gone, it’s gone, No. This is someone you
planned to spend the rest of your life with, and grow with. We made plans, like
every other couple. And when that happened…he died when I was 26 with two
children. I just felt that my life had ended. So, but with time, this year,
December 3rd will 10 years, one full decade. So it is not healing, I won’t call
it healing but I will say it numbs it and once in a while, it comes up and the
pain is as fresh like yesterday but it is how you deal with it that matters.
I have a different definition, I say time numbs. It is not something that
heals, and then that’s it, it’s gone, it’s gone, No. This is someone you
planned to spend the rest of your life with, and grow with. We made plans, like
every other couple. And when that happened…he died when I was 26 with two
children. I just felt that my life had ended. So, but with time, this year,
December 3rd will 10 years, one full decade. So it is not healing, I won’t call
it healing but I will say it numbs it and once in a while, it comes up and the
pain is as fresh like yesterday but it is how you deal with it that matters.
And that’s what I have had to do for the past 10 years but I
am very grateful for the family I have, for the people I have around me. For
that, you need a lot of strength. God helped me through it all.”
am very grateful for the family I have, for the people I have around me. For
that, you need a lot of strength. God helped me through it all.”
Daniel Ademinokan being her lover;
When you see a man who has settled ties with a woman and
decides to move on with his life and you feel that there is something in this
man that you like and he likes you. I am not a kid. I am 36 years old. I am not
about to start hiding myself. I was waiting for somebody to actually ask me
this question, because all I have heard for the past two, three years are
rumours. They said, blogs said, this said. Nobody has been bold enough to
confront me and ask me.
decides to move on with his life and you feel that there is something in this
man that you like and he likes you. I am not a kid. I am 36 years old. I am not
about to start hiding myself. I was waiting for somebody to actually ask me
this question, because all I have heard for the past two, three years are
rumours. They said, blogs said, this said. Nobody has been bold enough to
confront me and ask me.
She never snatched him from his ex-wife, Doris Simeon;
Let me put it this way. Let me help you hit the nail on the
head. One of the comments I have seen consistently, over and over again, is
‘Stella snatches somebody’s husband’, ‘Stella the husband snatcher’, which is
what has been going on. And I had sworn that I would never talk about it, or
even listen or stress myself about this thing but I have decided to do this
now, so that I end this once and for all.
head. One of the comments I have seen consistently, over and over again, is
‘Stella snatches somebody’s husband’, ‘Stella the husband snatcher’, which is
what has been going on. And I had sworn that I would never talk about it, or
even listen or stress myself about this thing but I have decided to do this
now, so that I end this once and for all.
First of all, let me paint a picture for you and you let me
know what makes sense to you. When I looked up the word snatch or steal, ehh,
let’s go to the dictionary. It means, forcefully taking something away from its
original position. Forcefully. From its original position to another position.
Something that does not belong to you. That’s what I gathered from the word
snatch or steal.
know what makes sense to you. When I looked up the word snatch or steal, ehh,
let’s go to the dictionary. It means, forcefully taking something away from its
original position. Forcefully. From its original position to another position.
Something that does not belong to you. That’s what I gathered from the word
snatch or steal.
So I looked at me, Stella, and I wondered to myself, how is
it possible to go to somebody’s home, and take a man, and take his son, away
from his home and say follow me. You are a man, and according to their story,
he is happily married inside his home. With his family complete and I walk into
that home, to forcefully take a man, abled bodied man, and a kid, away from
somebody’s hand and you are there looking at me. How does that work?
it possible to go to somebody’s home, and take a man, and take his son, away
from his home and say follow me. You are a man, and according to their story,
he is happily married inside his home. With his family complete and I walk into
that home, to forcefully take a man, abled bodied man, and a kid, away from
somebody’s hand and you are there looking at me. How does that work?
Why do people always blame the other woman;
Both parties have decided this thing is not going anywhere,
and they have gone their separate ways, why is it that it easier for the world
to blame the woman that the man has decided to end up with? Why is it that it
is always that woman that scattered that home? The two people that did things
that nobody was there, nobody said something must have happened between this
two people but it is always somebody else that is the problem. And I always
say, I do not tolerate blaming anybody for your own problems. I have had
problems.
and they have gone their separate ways, why is it that it easier for the world
to blame the woman that the man has decided to end up with? Why is it that it
is always that woman that scattered that home? The two people that did things
that nobody was there, nobody said something must have happened between this
two people but it is always somebody else that is the problem. And I always
say, I do not tolerate blaming anybody for your own problems. I have had
problems.
Why her 2nd marriage ended soon;
After my late husband’s death, I got married again and the
marriage didn’t work. After eight (8) months, it crashed. People didn’t hear
much about it, why? We were both mature to understand that we came together, we
knew that the thing was not working, instead of us to become enemies we will
remain friends, let’s just let it go quietly. And we let it go quietly. I
didn’t blame anybody else for doing it, he didn’t blame anybody else for doing
it.
marriage didn’t work. After eight (8) months, it crashed. People didn’t hear
much about it, why? We were both mature to understand that we came together, we
knew that the thing was not working, instead of us to become enemies we will
remain friends, let’s just let it go quietly. And we let it go quietly. I
didn’t blame anybody else for doing it, he didn’t blame anybody else for doing
it.
My relationship with Daniel is here to stay;
Not at all we are not going to separate, not at all. You
know why? Because my conscience was clear. Whatever issues a man has with his
wife or whatever, when they deal with it, they deal with it, I don’t come into
it. And once you are done with it, and ready to move on, and you want to move
on with me, and I want a life with you, it’s me and you.
know why? Because my conscience was clear. Whatever issues a man has with his
wife or whatever, when they deal with it, they deal with it, I don’t come into
it. And once you are done with it, and ready to move on, and you want to move
on with me, and I want a life with you, it’s me and you.
I don’t care what people think;
I don’t care what anybody else is thinking or saying.
Because I am not a kid for me to make a decision and say I want to be with this
person. If I marry 10, it concern you? That’s what I used to say.
Because I am not a kid for me to make a decision and say I want to be with this
person. If I marry 10, it concern you? That’s what I used to say.
If I have 50 husbands, how does that affect you? Does it
change my work? I do my work, you enjoy it. Enjoy it. It’s not about what I do
in my bedroom that is your issue because you don’t really know what happens in
people’s bedrooms. You don’t know what happens in marriages, you don’t know why
people like us are very weary of people knowing our business.
change my work? I do my work, you enjoy it. Enjoy it. It’s not about what I do
in my bedroom that is your issue because you don’t really know what happens in
people’s bedrooms. You don’t know what happens in marriages, you don’t know why
people like us are very weary of people knowing our business.
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