My Fiancé, His Mom, Sisters & Brothers All Deceived Me For 4 Years

What a story. Ladies indeed go through a lot in
relationships. The lady didn’t tell me her age, I only hope she’s in her early
20’s. Just wow.

I am in tears as I write this, it’s not that I want anyone’s
pity, I’m just putting out the story to let others learn from my story. I have
been with my boyfriend for 4 years after he was deported from the UK. When he
got here he lived with his sister but they had an argument and she chucked him
out. So being the good person I am I got an accommodation for him. We have been
in a serious relationship and planned to get married this year. Now for the
bombshell……I had NO IDEA he left a wife and two kids in the UK, and I have now
discovered that they have been in constant contact. What is most disappointing is
that t I know his family well, when I say well, I mean well. If they have a
function we all wear the same aso ebi. 

On Monday one of his nieces who is really close to me let
slip that my boyfriend is planning to travel to London on Thursday, VALENTINE’S
DAY!!!!. Can you just imagine that I had no idea. I thought she was joking or
seriously mistaken, and I think it’s this reaction that prompted her to tell me
about this secret family and about this secret visa that he has somehow managed
to obtain.

His niece begged me to never tell anyone, furthermore she
said that I’m such a nice person hence the reason why she told me. When I confronted
my boyfriend he denied it then got very upset. I went to go and meet the sister
who threw him out, she’s the first born, and a lot older (meaning she should be
wiser) I begged her to tell me the truth, and she confirmed what the niece told
me, however she said not to worry and didn’t say anything about him travelling.

I went home and told him that his family had confirmed
everything. He then opened up and said he has to leave on Thursday. I was shell
shocked. When I asked what will happen to me he said me and him will still
communicate, as if that would be some sort of compensation.

I got home and told my family and my mum was so mad on Tuesday
we went to my fiance’s house, my fiance’s mum told my mum that we will still
get married that I should be patient for like 2/3 years so he can get stable,
and that I should be the wife here while the wife in the UK will not interfere with
our marriage here. My mum rebuked such an arrangement and told her where to go.
I then texted my fiancé saying is this really how we are going to end and he
replied with I am sorry. Nothing more was said. I am not feeling mentally
stable but writing this is a source of relief knowing that someone might read
this and be more observant, thus letting her see the kind of man she is really
with. Ladies, and even gentlemen too I’m not saying you should start acting
like Sherlock Holmes but just don’t turn a blind eye if you suspect ANYTHING.