My Husband No Longer Has Erection! Wife Defends Husband Against Alleged Rape Of 8-Year Old

    Trouble started in the home
    of Mrs. Grace Adebiyi (not real name) in Akowonjo area of Lagos when she
    noticed a strange discharge from the private part of her eight-year-old
    daughter, as she slept on the night of Sunday April 12, 2015.
    “I would not have been
    worried if not because that I had noticed she was walking awkwardly when we
    were going to church earlier in the day. But when I asked what was wrong with
    her, she said nothing,” the woman said.
    But that night, as Comfort
    (not real name) slept, her mother decided to investigate what was wrong.

    “It was then I noticed my
    daughter’s private part was chafed. I was worried, what could have happened to
    her?”Adebiyi said.
    The worried mother roused
    her daughter and asked her what had been happening to her but the girl told her
    nothing happened.
    Adebiyi said, “I told her to
    go back to sleep but my mind was not at rest. The following morning. I asked
    her again if anybody had been fingering her and if that was what caused the way
    she was chafed and could not walk properly. She told me nothing of such
    happened.
    “I then threatened to take
    her to the police station. That was when she told me that she could only tell
    me if I would not beat her and if I would not confront the person who did it.
    When she told me, I nearly collapsed.”
    The name the little girl
    mentioned was that of their 45-year-old tenant, Victor Aneke.
    Before the incident, Mrs.
    Adebiyi and the Anekes, who had been living in the house since 1999, had been
    having a running battle over unpaid rent.
    Victor actually admitted to
    our correspondent that he owed at least N200,000 in rent backlog.
    Also, Mrs. Adebiyi said when
    she noticed that her daughter was too frequent in her tenant’s apartment, she
    warned her to stop going there.
    “But I was not worried about
    sexual abuse because I knew the man’s wife was around,” she said.
    The house is a kind commonly
    called ‘face-me-I-face-you’ in Lagos. One of the apartments in the building is
    used by Mrs. Adebiyi and her children. Her husband has been away on a long trip
    for many months.
    The woman said she did not
    know what to do, as she was afraid of confronting her tenant about such an
    allegation all alone.
    She notified child rights
    activists. When a test was conducted on the girl, a doctor at the Lagos State
    University Teaching Hospital’s Sexual Assault Referral Centre in Ikeja said that
    the girl had been raped a number of times.
    Our correspondent, with
    child rights activist, Esther Ogwu, in tow, later paid the Anekes a visit in
    the course of the week.
    After a warm welcome, Victor
    and his wife launched into a narration about how their landlady had been making
    their lives unbearable over their outstanding rent.
    Victor said he only loves
    children and thus allowed Comfort to sleep and watch cartoons in his apartment.
    Asked why he would allow the
    child stay in his apartment for extended periods of time even though he was not
    in good terms with the girl’s mother, Victor said other children also come to
    his apartment to play.
    Victor said, “The woman
    always quarrels with me because she wants me out of her house but her husband
    is a friend and he told her to leave me alone.
    “Telling her daughter to
    accuse me of molesting her was her latest ploy to send me out of this house. I
    have never touched the girl because she is like a daughter to me.”
    While Victor spoke, his
    fuming wife, Joy, pleaded to have a say during the interview. The woman was
    angry that her husband could be accused of such “dirty crime”.
    “How can she ask her
    daughter to lie against my husband just because she want us out of this house?”
    she said. “Let me tell you the truth, since my husband had an accident in March
    2013, he has not had an erection.”
    Her husband nodded as she
    made the revelation.
    However, later, when our
    correspondent went out and was alone with Victor, he said “I will treat you
    well if this report could be written to show how innocent I am.”
    Ogwu said the defence Joy
    put up for her husband was not tenable.
    “She probably knows that her
    husband did it but and would rather protect him against the law.
    “We may not be a law court
    that would judge him, but we will pursue this case to as far as needed to prove
    that the victim was not lying. We have interviewed her and we have no doubt
    that she is telling the truth.”
    The case has been reported
    at the Ipaja Police Division. Victor who was initially arrested was released on
    bail on medical grounds.

    The police spokesperson, Mr.
    Kenneth Nwosu has said that investigation is still ongoing in the case and the
    suspect would be charged to court as soon as findings are complete.

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